1.Be confident
As a trans man, you should be confident to ask a girl out, regardless of what kinds of relationships are you looking for. You should also be confident to tell girl that you are trans, be confident to show your love to other girls. I know that you are not sure if your trans date can really accept you when you are trans. If the girl is so attractive that you want to have a long-term relationship with, I suggest you to tell her who you are before showing your love and admire to her. As far as I know, most of trans men prefer to date straight girls, however, no matter you prefer to date straight girls or trans girls, please to honest about your gender and be confident enough to ask her out. Another concern of transgender men is that whether they are gay if they date trans girls. First, you should know that you are real men, trans girls are also normal girls. You are attractive to the opposite gender, and it never mean you are gay. Most of straight people are attracted to the opposite gender, and you are the same as them. Treat yourself as a normal guy, treat the girl you date as normal girl, and start a normal relationship with the girl you like. Being trans will never affect your relationships.
2.Be respectful
As a transgender man who want to be respected by other people, you should be respectful firstly. Showing your respect to other people is also a way to prevent violence and discrimination sometimes. When meet straight girls who cannot accept dating trans guys, be respectful and make friends with them if you can. It couldn't be better if you can meet a straight girl for a life-time relationship, while, friendship is also a great choice for transgender people. How to come out to your dating partner? This is always the most important step in trans dating and relationships. You should explain to your partner that you are a little bit different from normal guys. If the girl you date already knew that you are trans, so it is unnecessary to discuss anything about trans in your transgender dating and relationships. What will you do if you meet a new comer of ts dating? You need to tell her that you are trans, and you can also share something about your past life with her if it is acceptable to you. It could be more acceptable if you can explain carefully and share your feeling with them.
3.Be trusted
It means trust your partner and be trusted to your partner. If you are looking for serious relationship with girls, mutual trust plays an important role in your dating and relationships. I've met a girl, she has been dating for more than three times, but she still don't know her partner is trans. Be honest to your partner, this is an important dating tip for everyone. No matter you are trans guys or straight guys, trust and honesty are the foundations of your relationship.